This Post: Relationship Lessons from Taylor and Travis
Written By: Marybeth Bock
So, Taylor Swift showed up on the New Heights podcast, and let’s be honest – besides the new album hype and learning about the famous couple’s foray into sourdough breadmaking, the episode was chock full of relationship wisdom that we all should pay attention to.
Relationship Lessons from Taylor and Travis
From bold romantic gestures that felt straight out of a teen movie to consistently showing up in big (and small) moments, there was much more to it than just pop-star sparkle – it was a masterclass in relationship confidence, with a big side helping of self-respect.
And if our teens thought the two-hour show was “TL/DR” (too long; didn’t read) and jumped off early, here’s a quick list of helpful reminders to discuss with them as they navigate everything dating and relationships in a world where dating can get very messy and complicated, and everyone has a strong opinion. Because you don’t have to know the difference between a tight end and a tailback to appreciate a relationship built on mutual respect and publicly cheering each other on like it’s the Super Bowl.
6 Things Our Teenagers Can Learn from Taylor Swift’s Appearance on the New Heights podcast.
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1. If You’re Interested in Dating Someone, Put Yourself Out There
Take a risk. You’ll never know what could have happened if you’re not willing to be a little awkward or embarrassed. And if you get a rejection, accept it, move on, and be open to trying again and again and again.
2. When You DO Date Someone, Get Interested in Their Life and What They’re Passionate About
Maybe it’s something you’ve never been exposed to before, or you think it isn’t worth your time. Do it anyway. Dive in. Look things up, talk to people. You’ll learn more about life and much more about the person you’re with. That knowledge will broaden your outlook, make your own life more interesting, or maybe just lead you to realize you’re not with the right person. No matter what, this helps propel you forward on your own journey through life.
3. And If Your Person Doesn’t Know Much About Your Passion, Be Patient and Teach Them About It
Never be dismissive of someone who is inexperienced or has never been exposed to something you love to do. Offer a little patience, grace, and time. They may become your biggest cheerleader.
4. If You Decide to Stick With That Person (Even For Just a While), Become Their Biggest Cheerleader
Don’t let your ego or even your insecurities (or any immature friends) stand in the way of being super excited and vocal about what your person attempts and accomplishes. Excitement shows you care about them and that you’re proud of who they are and what they’re doing in life.
5. Ignore the Haters, Because They’re Always Around
Your friends may wonder what you see in someone or toss out negative comments about your relationship. Have the strength and courage to stand tall. This is your relationship, not theirs. Don’t waste time trying to figure out their feelings or their motivations for speaking up. If you’re both happy, actively choose not to let the opinions of others affect your relationship or bond.
6. Realize That Vulnerability is Not a Weakness
Be honest about your emotions, in a kind way. Showing vulnerability can be really hard, but it alleviates so much confusion within a relationship. Getting into this habit will help you in every relationship you have for the rest of your life, whether it’s romantic, platonic, or in a work setting.
So, while your teen may know more about the “Swelce” pair than you do, take advantage of this perfectly teachable moment by Taylor and Travis by sneaking in some life wisdom disguised as pop culture chatter.
About Marybeth Bock
Marybeth Bock, MPH, is a Mom to two young adults and one delightful hound dog. She has logged time as a military spouse, childbirth educator, college instructor, and freelance writer. She lives in Arizona and thoroughly enjoys research and writing, as long as iced coffee is involved. Her work can be found on numerous websites and in two books. Follow her on Facebook and Instagram.
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